Respect, value and respect from those around you is a precious value that everyone aspires to. For parents to acquire these values is not difficult, but also not easy, because it depends on the character of each child that parents are involved in building them from the first day he began to learn from parents and people around. He himself, order and responsibility are also important.
Modern Mom and Dad share the following methods: Here are six signs that you teach your children well and have a respectable personality:
1. Trustworthy: Parents need to understand clearly, in addition to teaching them to keep their promises, they also need to make their children trustworthy, because being an honest child who always tells the truth is a good thing. In addition, when they can begin to hear the secrets of family, friends or those around them. The children themselves will not be fooled because they know it is not the right thing to say. Especially when they grow up, they never know how to lie or cheat when in a relationship with someone.
2. Respect for promises: Respect for promises is very important before children or adults, because it is part of making children valuable in the future to communicate with others. Even our Khmer proverb says, "People take words, elephants take ivory," so every word or promise of parents, anyone or children is very valuable. That is why people who say and do always get respect and value from others.
3. Be humble: As always, parents never think of themselves or their children as superior, no matter how talented they may be. But according to observation, children are always learning and strong as friends. And always have the idea to brag or say something demeaning to others, but still have the idea to share and help train friends. This point made the people around him love and love unconditionally.
4. Be considerate of others: Teaching children when they see others suffering or having problems should not stand still and not help because they feel inappropriate. Being friendly to friends or relatives is a good habit for the same child, but also to follow the conditions, possibilities and possibilities. At this point, it seems that you are teaching your children to donate and to be charitable. If you can meet them, do it immediately because you understand that the world will be a desirable place to live when everyone knows how to help each other.
5. Respect and value others: Parents teach and try to explain to their children the point of not being self-respecting, respecting and valuing others equally, regardless of race, gender, or religion. Teaching your child to adapt to diversity and to like to explore the different cultures of others in order to learn the habit of learning to value what you have with others does not lead to harm. Any interest in society.
6. Do not hesitate to accept mistakes: Do everything, but what should not be forgotten, parents should tell their children the good points of life and control the thinking that no one is perfect or good at everything, everyone always makes mistakes. Only if unintentional is the best thing can fix the problem when you know what was done was really wrong. But it is also not easy to blame yourself, because this makes us feel that we are not smart or afraid of problems. After all, parents encourage their children to face the truth and not hesitate to accept mistakes, and this will make others appreciate your child.
In short, character is very important in social life, study and daily work, it can make parents and children worthwhile and respected by others, but can also cause the same loss of value. Each other. However, if you have trained your children to have the above six points in your body, it means that you have already created values, honor and reputation for yourself and your children to participate in society in the future well.
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